Beyond the Syllabus: A Reflection on Second Year
Why is it so hard to just be yourself? When will I ever make friends at uni ? Is it normal to feel lonely at university? These are all questions I've asked myself during my time at university. As I’ve grown and developed, the idea of loneliness can feel quite embarrassing and not worth mentioning because everyone around you seems to have it figured out and be happy, with a close-knit friendship group and feeling content with the new friends they have made. When you’re the only one struggling to fit in, find the right friendship group, or deal with drama in a group you probably shouldn’t be in, it can feel exhausting, suffocating, and incredibly anxiety-inducing. When you look around university, it seems almost impossible for anyone to be ‘lonely’, especially in this age of abundant entertainment and technology that keeps everyone up to date and involved with the world. However, ironically, you might be surprised to realise that it can be the exact opposite, whic...